why 30 is not the new 20



"the time to start picking your family is now...you may be thinking 30 is actually a better time to settle down than 20 or 25...and i agree with you...but grabbing with whoever you're living with or sleeping with when everyone on fb starts walking down the aisle is not progress...the best time to work on your marriage is before you have one...and that means being as intentional with love as you are with work. picking your family is about consciously choosing who and what you want...rather than just making it work or killing time with whoever just happens to be choosing you"
 
30 is not the new 20 so claim your adulthood, get some identity capital...use your weak ties, pick your family. don't be defined by what you didnt know or didnt do.  you're deciding your life right now...
 
 

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