i have no attachment to anything for better or for worse.  and with the amount of shared experiences i've had here, i was none the happier to hurriedly move out.  and so begins a new era.

we kind of put the pieces together...big fish in small ponds are already annoying.  but then there are people who became bigger fish and try to snob you.  他們在大學不紅。 有點錢,但大家都有錢。  那時她比較胖。。。跟那群比,沒她們漂亮。  i've known you forever, if im sitting next to you.  lets just catch up.  

happy birthday charles.  cashbox 西門町。。。2 floors.  too much food.  5 bottles of blue.  a mic hog in the mix.  some 台客’s at the end.  nonetheless fun.  they went out after.  i went home.

are you sure 他們不是有一點黑的?

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in college i always wondered what my female peers saw in older men.  they just looked slimey and greasy hitting on girls 10 years their junior.  well, apparently im turning into one.  or at least age has given me the perspective of better understanding the very basics between boys and girls.  girls are aesthetically pleasing and boys are immature.  girls have a shelf life and boys just have more money with age.  dating takes practice and with no money and less practice, the young male is at a huge handicap.

apply those rules as u enter your 30s and dating then just becomes the 5th installment of super mario brothers.  same characters, same overall guidelines, similar controls and u're still looking to save the princess.  it's still fun, it's kind of different and definitely been upgraded, but this time around, why waste all that time beating every level to prove to yourself that u can do it, just use the cheats, u can afford game genie and hop around the game like you own it.  cuz you do.  

The game doesn't adapt to game genie.  in life, women adapt to your cheat codes.  and as they adapt, men once again get sent back to freshmen year wedgie status.  always a sucker for a pretty face.  so, "let me just throw money at them"  then comes with a grain of salt.  "whoa...how much money did i spend last night?  wow she's good"

so that was the conversation last night.  "if women are all money hungry b*tches.  which ones ethnically, are the most direct and shameless?...look, i'll buy the chanel, but don't charge lunch to my room if im not even there"

 

after dinner with gangsters...a 1.5 hour of massage session @ kin raku with mark/wendy/amber...i learned about US land development (entitlement companies, private equity investors, home builders and golf courses) while listening to 90s rock.

http://dw4.convertfiles.com/files/0205547001329841660/yyff2.mp3

 

http://dw4.convertfiles.com/files/0464961001329841509/yyff.mp3

while i traverse the world like i normally do, no plans, last minute flights, last minute hotels and sleeping on peoples floors...like what im doing right now, i usually find the time to visit my 900 friends as if they lived in the same city as i.  and as we all get older, i'm now visiting wives and babies and their new homes and their new cars and their new families.   that's them.  they talk about kid stuff and im still showing pictures of me getting wasted the night before, the new girls in my life, the new friends i've met and so on and so forth.  it's my stories that are getting old while i do wish i were somewhat in their stable shoes.  however...i still want to somehow get on this show.

非诚勿扰 - it's pretty hilarious.  so aggressive.  and it's almost like picking a 酒店妹 on tv.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fei_Cheng_Wu_Rao

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it's feb 13th and my mom is still in Taiwan.  She's been in Taiwan for at least 6 months now.   she claims to have been campaigning for president Ma, and now that he's won his second term, she now will wait around for his "thank you dinner" that takes place on the 20th of the month.  what's the point?  he's not going to run for a third term, u're unhappy at some things that he's done, and really, dad is home all alone.  great work mom.

Why Taiwan’s Future Matters

By SU CHI

FOR most of its history, Taiwan’s destiny was determined by three great powers — China, Japan and America. Now, as the 18th-largest economy in the world and a thoroughly democratized nation, Taiwan is still perceived by some in Washington as a potential bargaining chip in crafting a new relationship with China. This is a mistake.

It is true that Taiwan’s status is the only dispute today that is likely to drag America and China into war. Similarly, a democratic Taiwan worries “realist” strategic thinkers who fear the consequences if it declares independence. But since 2008, when Taiwan began to stabilize its once volatile relations with China, it has become an even greater asset for the United States — and an inspiration for democratizing forces in mainland China.

After years of saber-rattling in Beijing and Taipei’s drive for independence, President Ma Ying-jeou’s May 2008 declaration of “no unification, no independence, and no use of force” calmed all sides. Taiwan and China have since engaged in numerous de facto government-to-government talks and greatly expanded people-to-people exchanges. With $130 billion worth of trade and seven million visits annually across the Taiwan Strait, the impact on both societies could be enormous.

Indeed, as China and Taiwan have grown ever more economically integrated, Taiwan has also become a model for China’s future. No longer perceived as a menace to China’s national unity, Taiwan’s value as an example for China began to emerge, particularly when it came to market reforms, popular culture and press freedom. And this new model arrived at a fortuitous juncture.

After 1949, Communist China’s first 30 years were engulfed in revolutionary fervor, internal power struggles and poverty. Its second 30 years witnessed rapid economic growth, which catapulted the country to the second largest economy in the world. The third stage, which may well last another 30 years, given China’s huge size, is most likely to be marked by a race between popular demands for participation in the political process and the Communist Party’s response to these demands.

This is a bumpy path Taiwan has trod. In the past three decades, Taiwan has discarded authoritarianism and moved from martial law to the rule of law, experiencing impressive economic growth and political liberalization. Authoritarian China now finds itself uncomfortably strained as inland provinces are struggling for economic growth while urban areas are boldly stretching out to explore the boundaries of political control, forcing the Communist Party to experiment with limited reforms.

Herein lies Taiwan’s new value. While China’s economic influence on Taiwan is growing, many in China find Taiwan’s experience with democratization, warts and all, instructive. Long resentful of prevalent corruption at home, they have watched Taiwan tackle corruption within its government, even at the highest levels. They have seen how successfully Taiwan combined modernity with Chinese traditions. And they have observed how Taiwan’s people freely express their will through noisy public discussion and regular elections. Last month, debates among Taiwan’s presidential candidates were even carried by social media inside China.

Taiwan will of course need to resolve its internal political disagreements. After all, some in Taiwan are not yet convinced that a push for independence would be misguided. However, such a move would court disaster, incur disfavor with the international community, and seriously undermine Taiwan’s newfound attraction to many Chinese people as a democratic model.

The winner of Taiwan’s presidential election on Jan. 14 should therefore strive to forge a new domestic consensus between opposing camps on the island’s political relationship with China while ensuring Taiwan a more dignified place in world politics commensurate with the contributions it can make.

Long locked in indignant isolation but enormously proud of their democratic achievements, Taiwan’s people must now accept that democracy endows them with greater responsibility for regional stability. They could start by playing a more constructive role in the evolving American-Chinese relationship by becoming an interlocutor on issues that affect all three parties, like disputes over the South China Sea.

All of this will require innovative thinking and skillful management. If either side or the United States mishandles the relationship by attempting a diplomatic or even military shortcut, it could spell disaster for all parties. But if China and Taiwan establish a sufficient degree of mutual trust, Taiwan can remain an indispensable ally for the United States and a model for China’s future.

 

it's time to move back to asia.  your ducks are never going to be in a row.  they just have to be close.  and at some point u gotta take the plunge.  that age is about now.  alex is doing it.  i should be doing it.

hyatt.  hei hei.  in time.  gummy and alex.  STRAWBERRIES!

 

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