the most patient, the nicest, the easiest going, person that i love esther for getting engaged to (even though i don't know him that well)...even he gets angry sometimes.  "i'm on vacation and i'd rather go back to work"  HAHAHAHA.  and well, u get no pity from me, but if you want to vent and complain, i know all about it.  i moved to korea.  you married korea.  HAHAHA.
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it's just the 2 of us left.  this time, all our friends are really married.  legally hitched and with obligation for the other half.  so sleeping over and randomly crashing all of a sudden seems even more of a burden than the past 2 years.  it was bound to happen...maybe this is our year?  as sunny put it..."last year, i spent too much time dancing.  this year, im going to focus more on dating"
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yep.  tuxedo's at kunjip.  a first.
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body shots.  not a  first.


that's what i craved.  that's what i ate.  that's what was still amazing.
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they met on my bday in 2009.  and i felt like the only way to do this special day justice was to start drinking at noon. and have 7 drinks before a black tie wedding.  cuz this was the event everyone seemed to be waiting for all week.  and this was also the day i would see all my buddies again.  so i did a smart move by having 7 bloody mary's at cafeteria.  which was why i did not feel so good while changing into a tux.  i then finally started feeling a little better at cocktail hour, only to then not feel good again because of some monster johnnie walker shot.  and then there was that lull after the wedding which caused us to go to ktown to have soju.  at which i felt immediately better.  omg...
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nothings changed.  or has it?  
"i just like hanging out...so i'm just going to sit here until i get the look...then we'll head back..." - hkt200
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메리 크리스마스...both dad and i were severely jetlagged....or sick.  or whatever the reason, we just kept sleeping all week.  i managed to make christmas dinner, sniffling and unkempt, yet my friends came and my family came and that's all i could've asked for.  benny was smart, he bought everything.  cuz the best thing my friends said they ate was the noodles i served them as an appetizer upon arrival.   

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we get a lot of gift baskets that my family is constantly giving away again, or if we actually open one, my mom is finding new ways to reuse those baskets in random places of the house.  pens, papers, lotions, bathrooms, basements, garages, gardens, all victims of the holiday gift basket.  and so i walk by the kitchen counter and see this perfectly placed next to the cordless phone...
"the asian gift basket"  chock full of what every asian household needs.  HAHAHA.
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so i went to taipei early to have dinner with mom.  mom went to dinner with other people instead.  so i sent her this.  haha.

你跟妈妈说。  我很伤心。  我昨天就跟他说今晚吃饭。。。我等他跟我说哪时比较好。  整天没联络。  短信也不回。  怎么搞得。 我知道他心里有我。。。但这样的约好不来点。 尤其圣诞节前几天。。。 会给我难过的感觉 没关系。。。你们慢慢跟外人好好聚聚。  吃饱。  外面很冷。  我自己解决。

跟妈妈说。。。是她应该跟我联络。  我是在等他。  啊呀。。。每次都是这样。  没关系了。  反正就这样了。  你们去忙。  不多说了。  还有一点。。。希望妈妈能了解。。。。我这里跟他传的话只是给他看的。  不是要宣传给别人变听变笑。 我努力学中文的原因是要跟妈妈聊多深入的话题。  希望妈妈有一天能用母子的六感体贴我的意思。  所以。。。不要一直focus 中文程度。。。应该focus我写得意思


i've spent a lot of time watching vice channel lately.  a strong shift in my interests in media.  a very adult thing to start moving away from fluff and into social problems of the world.  news.  events.  aid.  and in effect Social Accountability.  and as i was initially drawn to its independent arts and pop culture topics, ultimately, it's "immersion journalism is what i respect the most (the entire pakistan series is mind blowing).  so as for WERD magazine wanting to model itself as a new media outlet like VICE...godspeed cuz i'll be a follower.  hopefully a writer! 
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the calm of airport lounges...(allows you to reflect on the following or hallucinate like u're talking to a bear...)
on this current pace of weddings, hopefully i'll have diamond by april.  and hopefully i'll at least get to wait on a shorter line since the marco polo line seems longer than the economy line.  and i'll be flying economy cuz who the heck can afford to constantly fly back to all these weddings?  i can't even count the number of times i've been in weddings now.  shouldn't you only be a best man once?  shouldn't you only be a part of wedding only a handful of times in a lifetime?  now that i have reverend under my belt the wedding involvement has only tri folded.  i can sense the seriousness in my moms voice when she asks "ARE YOU IN THE WEDDING AGAIN?...DON'T DO IT.  YOU'LL NEVER GET MARRIED"...i can hear my dad's most recent talk with me..."u can't possibly attend every single wedding"...i can sense my real close close friends thinking they don't want me in their weddings anymore cuz i'm in too many...i can feel the button of my tuxedo getting tighter and tighter from open bar and wedding cake...i just have too many friends.  it's a bad thing...u gotta be able to find that perspective with me...
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They really don't like each other.  makes the house tough to handle.  and a complete raucous when they see each other.  nuts.  
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i have an unusual tight relationship with the lee's.  and its always been alexia, louisa and miss tsai.  i haven't really hung out with anny that much.  and now on this trip to visit, i've gotten quite comfortable hanging with papa lee and it's been a while since i caught up with kent.  and overall, i came out of the conversation feeling very worried for him.  he lives in kaoshiong.  he doesnt like kaoshiong yet he's kind of stuck in between staying for obligation, not leaving because he's not sure what he wants to do, and then leaving only temporarily to then come back to a place where he seemingly despises, has very little friends and more importantly no girlfriend.  at our age, from a pure human point of view, the frustration must be killer.  i feel bad.

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sole rebels is an artisan eco friendly footwear from ethiopia.  it's designs are similar to brand sanuk.  and the guy who helped bring sanuk to taiwan, and the same guy that handles levi's taiwan is now taking his experience to build sole rebels in the chinese market.  he doesn't handle the details.  he sees the products, thinks it will sell, and is more concerned with how to capture market share with a competitive product.  ethiopia and taiwan has no import duties (tho a handmade ethiopian product has obvious QC issues).  he may not look so fashionable, but i can tell he has a good grasp of what the market wants.  he has the right kind of aggression to push his product quickly and has the kohonas to pull the trigger and invest accordingly.  in august 2012 he signed the distribution rights for taiwan.  october built out the first store.  by dec 20th.  3 stores already.  i'm impressed.  now if only he wouldn't fish tail his panorama at every stop light.  esp after drinking...
tho as with all taiwanese, or chinese businessmen, the one weakness he might have, is where alexia comes in.  the western bridge.  it's the idiosyncratic intangibles that put stress on relationships.  esp when non work related stress adds on work stress.  and even more so when good intentions are wasted or misconstrued.  and so his itinerary to show the grandeur of his work, or to be extra hospitable to the ethiopians, i think was a little too over the top.  sometimes a little unnecessary.  i just came to help or to visit.  and i was pretty stressed.     
the owner a 32 lady (married with children) came with her brother (22 year old bright eyed, vain, innocent).  had no clue what they liked, what they wanted.  their english was good so i assumed some international exposure.  the brand seemed to be in a lot of places of the world, so it seemed that they both had seen and been a lot of places.  i have been exposed to much of the shoe industry from larry and you'd be hard pressed to impress those guys in any way shape or form.  and so the boss, bethlehem was only focused with work or when she was looking at other shoe brands on the street.  other than that, nothing phased her.  never hungry, never cared to eat, never wanted anything, didn't want to do anything.  then the brother, who wanted to do everything, was controlled by the sister.  and he seemed to play off like he'd been everywhere yet when he saw oysters he asked "that's seafood right?"
well, i gave it my all for one day, and skipped out on the 2nd day.  good reason.  i didn't come down south to chaperone them.  i had kent and the pooches to hang out with.  kkk.
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i do have a preference.  i just get along with jayden better.  haha...he's that rambunctious shot of energy that i love in people.  TROUBLE.  but HAPPY TROUBLE. kkk.
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the best foreign exchange rate in all of hong kong is at the CHANEL store at the PENINSULA HOTEL in TSIM TSA TSUI in KOWLOON, HONG KONG.  7.7 HKD ~ 1 USD.  JUST BUY BOTH.
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i can remember niku as a baby hopping around.  so cute and fluffy like a bunny.  and now he's manic, bipolar.  reminds me of a psycho zombie from "i am legend"  online research says he's in pain since his accident, but the zombie dog mixed with a spoiled american child puts him out of favor with me.  didi is a good boy.
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