ADD

"u jerk. u don't remember anything from 2000-2004....that's why you'll never win with me."

i don't have ADD and i don't mean to be rude when im changing topics mid conversation.  and people that know me know that about me.  i pay attention to everything someone says to me.  i just have high brain activity where i'll want to bring up another topic because its on my mind at the same time.  and in the background i am actually processing the previous topic to fully digest it and then respond to it.  hence it nets out a more thorough consequential response.  that's how i am...

on top of that.  i don't apply diff standards to others as i apply to myself.  and i know i may come off flaky, but i do plan!  there's no way someone could have so many options to do other stuff if he did not plan.  i make tentative plans and wait for that moment when someone calls me or i call them to finally meet up.   in this day and age where everything is so close and communication can be so quick, just confirm last minute and u're there.  i don't need people to block out entire blocks of time for me.  i expect them to do their own thing and then meet up when they're free.  if they get caught up, i totally understand. 

it goes for the same as if i were late to dinner cuz i got caught up with something.  go ahead and order. im there for the food and the company and we're gonna group order anyways.  dont choose that restaurant that wont seat you until full party is there.  i'll even go as far as to make that stipulation.  anyways...let the night continue without me and when i come in....i'll come in.  i think my close friends get it.  and once you accept it it has its benefits.  because when things dont work out in their structured life, i will be the first most forgiving person...across all levels.  because i know things happen.  physically and emotionally and mentally. 

that's what i do for work.  nothing is that finite.  i bridge the gap between two parties and factor in a tolerance.