flexibility.

some people look at me and think that my advice may come off too aggressively spontaneous. whimsical.  too flexible.  i can see how my lifestyle may seem intimidating to some, however, if i give aggressive advice after being friends with someone over a period of time, it's because i've assessed that the previous 4 years of soft advice and relative self improvement is not enough and time just wastes away before one needs to really up the ante on change and solving an issue.  net result is that whatever it is that you're doing is not enough.  you can say you're getting better, but in reality, the more time that elapses for you to get to that point is your own time wasted. 

flexibility is relative.

 

of course khym had to come with this gross bottle....