taboo.

i turn 30 in december.  and everyone else...just 4 years younger, had things to say about things that really just take that extra 4 years to iron out.  not solve, but be at a certain level of acceptance about.  dating, personal, social, work, and most commonly..."i've always wanted to live abroad".  DO IT.  i always say it with qualifications, but it's always...JUST DO IT.  it's always simpler than ppl try to make it out to be.  and never qualify perspective on time spent away...cuz u just never know...and if u do know...then u're not letting the "never knows" come to u...so i asked for a beer and listened to the rants.  i'm sure my married buddies look at me 4 years away from them and ask for whiskey....

what was interesting was that mid 20s girls were talking about wanting to step into the next level of maturity in dating men.  they wanted to move past the club scene and the immature guy scene and plunge into that depth of the legitimate male that's over the fleeting scene of the moment and no forward planning.  what a fine line to straddle.  cuz i am on that exact flip end...dating someone in their mid 20s who just might be a little bit confused as to what they really want cuz as i exude the fleeting party animal of a frat boy, in this instance...my 5 seconds of weakness to push legitimacy on her....made me come off like a psycho.  Just...Great.

the night ended with boardwalk empire.  but it all began with chips and taboo...which being my first time playing, i found to be wildly indicative of people.  im not judging intelligence but more cultural and social idiosyncracies, thought processes etc.  they could be wildly successful in technical math related business and i'd laud their achievements however still wouldn't stop me from laughing in their face at simple free association...it takes all of 2 seconds to see how close you are on the same page with someone.  1. san antonio...nba jam. sean elliot. ALAMO.  2. hilarious. osteoperosis. FUNNY BONE. 3. NARCISSICTIC. RICH CHANG. VAIN. 4. THUMB IN YOUR ASS? 5. I SWEAR ON THE TORAH! 6. SLOGO....7. is that a bird?  HAHAHAH. RED HEAAARRRRING?!?@#?!@