the anchor

when it comes down to it...life boils down to happiness.  it's an intangible and arbitrary value thats  given by oneself...however which way you derive at that value.  and happiness is hopefully something that's wished upon ones peers as well.  however which way they derive at that value.  as intangible as the finite details of happiness are...there is a common denominator of a simple smile.  and when u've known someone for a long time...happiness is somewhat obvious.  no words.  its a transparent vibe.  and that's what i wish for everyone around me.  godspeed.

however in this case...no matter how much he doesn't listen.  bottom line.  he doesn't look good.  he just looks drained.  exhausted.  worn.  defeated.  and it's not about appearance at all.  tho.  it's all a choice.  if u choose that path...godspeed.

and so i came back just for him.  only to not hang out...

nice #fannypack #babe "It can’t be said enough. Don’t concern yourself with fashion; stick to simple pieces that flatter your body type. By nineteen, I had found my look. Oversize T-shirts, bike shorts, and wrestling shoes. To prevent the silhouette from being too baggy, I would cinch it at the waist with my fanny pack. I was pretty sure I would wear this look forever. The shirts allowed me to express myself with cool sayings like “There’s No Crying in Baseball” and “Universität Heidelberg,” the bike shorts showed off my muscular legs, and the fanny pack held all my trolley tokens. I was nailing it on a daily basis. Find something like this for yourself as soon as possible." ~Tina Fey