whatever it was, hak won, summer programs, friends etc. somehow i got really into korean stuff. music, food, tv, movies, and girls. when i was in HS, chinese kids looked dorky and studied too much. the koreans had more community, a tighter network through church, where elders could pass on wisdom to the youngin's like, smoking behind the dumpster, passing on the ID's for clubbing etc. while that was the driving factor for fun, korean girls just looked better. more make up. higher heels. straighter blacker hair. and cutesy and whiny along with sticker pictures were the IN thing!
and after 4 korean girls in row, i tested the chinese waters. with the one redeeming factor of my stint in asia being that i've grown to prefer dating chinese women for cultural and family reasons, i also find myself not as into that korean look. they're still pretty, im still all about it. but after the conversation about how culturally, korean girls can't let their personalities loose because in korea it comes off pretentious, whereas its the inverse here. and me being from here, find that the look with no supporting burst of laughter, with no strong claim on opinion, with no gaze of interest during dinner...is no longer attractive.
well...that was the conversation. which was brought upon by this...of which all were right up my alley. pls disregard everything i said above.
